it be true that women are made to have children? and who do not have is not 100% happy? Definitivmaente
not know about you, but I wholeheartedly support those who say "do not want children" but I really feel that this is the result of things that have lived and performed to block his head and his heart something as beautiful as the joy of motherhood.
Why do I say?, Rather say, why you think that today do not want to have children?, Could ensure that with any of the following circumstances and if not, but really it is not, then I would ask you to give me a comment in order to understand this position, but without masks, being 100% honest.
1. Acts "traumatic" with the family. The brothers (as) or parents. Situations that do not like each parent and child or between siblings. Even cases that are the most or the "middle" and you get to care for the brother or younger siblings, which many times turn out to be "the trough", ie it takes a number of years so important is for you to change diapers, give bottle, bathe, change, give medicine, etc., all the role of mother practically only that they are not. When this happens, you usually difficult to think about having children soon, trying to live a little more things according to your age and avoid taking care of your brothers, age very quickly within the meaning mother and the other part of you is still parked in adolescence total. A 2, or you have trouble or want to marry and marry! to run away from home and forget about being a mother of 2 children who are entering puberty "the most difficult age" . Peer, if you decide to get married or get out of your house, nothing is with the idea of \u200b\u200bhaving children, is never! is not for you ... or if it is but ... in about 5 years and are not sure.
2. Are still very young and very very lazy!. This very young I mean under 28 years old love your freedom and you love to be able to say that today you're here and elsewhere tomorrow, no problem alguno.Pero that not to have children, do not venture to insure , do not deny the possibility, not lock yourself into something where you hurt yourself later, it forces you, let it pass, the time comes and then, only then decide.
3. Tried by all means be a mother or find the man in your life to be, or maybe if you and leave you checked ... but ... you get the time and you step ... was more important to buy your house, your car, your travels, your profession, your stability professional and today ... there is no way to have children, you can not, failed. Then get in it attitude "bitter" and it really is ... and say "I? Children? Not for nothing! That horror! Care chamacos I from afar" , when if you had a few years younger but TODAY without hesitation to bet that experience ... Do not hurt yourself, do not invent, do not deny, do not try to jsutificar, had your time and let it go, you chose something else, now faces strong Just take the consequences , you're not a girl, you're a woman, do not be bitter or bitter, or you invent things that are not. note turn away people, Draw and live with them we decided not to take. Make it through your nephews, your grandchildren, children of friends, have fun today, so decided to have.
If you fell in any of these congratulations! not all born to be mothers and then if you are completely sure of it. good!
really is amazing being a mother, not everything is perfect, but ... what is?, sometimes as more imperfect is what we ... do not tell me you're afraid to disclose it? or changing diapers? ja by God! 've done worse things and do not have hard time when you want to do, or? and your imagination should give you all the answers to this question or not?, then scare you with a simple diaper change and that if you apply unveiled last 3 months?.
What if I say that the rewards will be 1,000,000,000 times the 30.000 changing diapers and 90 days without sleep run? and indeed fall short, but I could tell you many things ... yet no one from somebody else experience it? so I would recommend you decide to do it and live it more fully ... could bet your thereafter to ensure that there is nothing, nothing more beautiful than having a child.
not know about you, but I wholeheartedly support those who say "do not want children" but I really feel that this is the result of things that have lived and performed to block his head and his heart something as beautiful as the joy of motherhood.
Why do I say?, Rather say, why you think that today do not want to have children?, Could ensure that with any of the following circumstances and if not, but really it is not, then I would ask you to give me a comment in order to understand this position, but without masks, being 100% honest.
1. Acts "traumatic" with the family. The brothers (as) or parents. Situations that do not like each parent and child or between siblings. Even cases that are the most or the "middle" and you get to care for the brother or younger siblings, which many times turn out to be "the trough", ie it takes a number of years so important is for you to change diapers, give bottle, bathe, change, give medicine, etc., all the role of mother practically only that they are not. When this happens, you usually difficult to think about having children soon, trying to live a little more things according to your age and avoid taking care of your brothers, age very quickly within the meaning mother and the other part of you is still parked in adolescence total. A 2, or you have trouble or want to marry and marry! to run away from home and forget about being a mother of 2 children who are entering puberty "the most difficult age" . Peer, if you decide to get married or get out of your house, nothing is with the idea of \u200b\u200bhaving children, is never! is not for you ... or if it is but ... in about 5 years and are not sure.
2. Are still very young and very very lazy!. This very young I mean under 28 years old love your freedom and you love to be able to say that today you're here and elsewhere tomorrow, no problem alguno.Pero that not to have children, do not venture to insure , do not deny the possibility, not lock yourself into something where you hurt yourself later, it forces you, let it pass, the time comes and then, only then decide.
3. Tried by all means be a mother or find the man in your life to be, or maybe if you and leave you checked ... but ... you get the time and you step ... was more important to buy your house, your car, your travels, your profession, your stability professional and today ... there is no way to have children, you can not, failed. Then get in it attitude "bitter" and it really is ... and say "I? Children? Not for nothing! That horror! Care chamacos I from afar" , when if you had a few years younger but TODAY without hesitation to bet that experience ... Do not hurt yourself, do not invent, do not deny, do not try to jsutificar, had your time and let it go, you chose something else, now faces strong Just take the consequences , you're not a girl, you're a woman, do not be bitter or bitter, or you invent things that are not. note turn away people, Draw and live with them we decided not to take. Make it through your nephews, your grandchildren, children of friends, have fun today, so decided to have.
If you fell in any of these congratulations! not all born to be mothers and then if you are completely sure of it. good!
really is amazing being a mother, not everything is perfect, but ... what is?, sometimes as more imperfect is what we ... do not tell me you're afraid to disclose it? or changing diapers? ja by God! 've done worse things and do not have hard time when you want to do, or? and your imagination should give you all the answers to this question or not?, then scare you with a simple diaper change and that if you apply unveiled last 3 months?.
What if I say that the rewards will be 1,000,000,000 times the 30.000 changing diapers and 90 days without sleep run? and indeed fall short, but I could tell you many things ... yet no one from somebody else experience it? so I would recommend you decide to do it and live it more fully ... could bet your thereafter to ensure that there is nothing, nothing more beautiful than having a child.
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