What subject as complicated for a society not ready for something like this ... I say this because even though we already see more gay daily, there are even many pro-homosexual movement and more people find "public" with this trend, it remains difficult to address the issue. There remains a kind of annoyance or discomfort to the subject.
While homosexuality relate to something merely "men" because everything around is criticism about "how to stop being man, macho, strong, controlling, dominant," "machismo" in a nutshell; Many women are now found in another person of the same sex as a companion to share his life with whom to share their thoughts, their fears, their loves, their joys, their complexes, their love for their profession and life .
course is more difficult because women somo very loving each other, from the hold hands when we are friends in elementary, secondary, etc to kiss his cheeks all the time or even swim together or go to the bathroom in pairs as both are criticized for them.
so pretty there a relationship between women who did not consider it difficult to take a step further, especially when you have not identified any man or have had experiences not just beautiful but very transcendental. Between us we understand, we understand perfectly!, Does not pass as a heterosexual relationship where he does not know what to say or how to act or how to interpret a response "vague" by his girlfriend. Here we know perfectly well what happens in the heads of the other, we know what we do and how to keep things running well in this respect have an advantage.
But ... what happens now in the issue of sexual attraction as such ... How can I attract someone of our own sex? intersante would any of you who are or have been in this situacipon could give us feedback this. Perhaps
so long they live together and doing that little by little we see that friend as the person who was always there with us and then ... is cute, we understand, there is "connection" between us and this may be the most important step to bring us to something else.
How to tell parents that I like my friend and ... she also liked that no longer want to hear about that old boyfriend who made me suffer so much and that really do not want to know about men ...? You must be a difficult step but I believe that life is full of so many problems, it is best to be as honest, even as direct as possible ... but all they like that very much but it beats walking walking around without getting anywhere, and creating environments can rarely be clear at all do not you think? although I will be somewhat complicated with the idea of \u200b\u200btalking in a serious, formal and sincere, it should always work, at least you do not stay with the feeling that you did something wrong, otherwise, you said it like it is and if not today, they will appreciate later.
As for your environment as well, of course, before making this public must be completely sure that this is, that fact will not want anything to men and that already will be gay , not fashion not tantrum, no pressure, if not poruqe you want and you're determined and happy by this decision. Once having this security, there is nothing to stop you, you have to go directly to address the situation according to the environment in which you are: friends, friends, relatives, parents, school, work, etc.
Just be careful to know how you do it, but there is nothing wrong with being gay should keep in mind that there are many people who bother you or likely to withdraw their friendship or anything like that, be prepared for all types of reactions, from most positive to most negative, but that should not stop much less make you feel bad, is part of, now is your lifestyle and have to deal with it.
I expect many things, many new experiences that only you know if you enjoy or reject, dare, do it, have fun with your partner happy, feel good, real siéntente. Projects
your happiness, your peace, your joy, your peace being what they are, believe me ... this is to whoever reaches it.
While homosexuality relate to something merely "men" because everything around is criticism about "how to stop being man, macho, strong, controlling, dominant," "machismo" in a nutshell; Many women are now found in another person of the same sex as a companion to share his life with whom to share their thoughts, their fears, their loves, their joys, their complexes, their love for their profession and life .
course is more difficult because women somo very loving each other, from the hold hands when we are friends in elementary, secondary, etc to kiss his cheeks all the time or even swim together or go to the bathroom in pairs as both are criticized for them.
so pretty there a relationship between women who did not consider it difficult to take a step further, especially when you have not identified any man or have had experiences not just beautiful but very transcendental. Between us we understand, we understand perfectly!, Does not pass as a heterosexual relationship where he does not know what to say or how to act or how to interpret a response "vague" by his girlfriend. Here we know perfectly well what happens in the heads of the other, we know what we do and how to keep things running well in this respect have an advantage.
But ... what happens now in the issue of sexual attraction as such ... How can I attract someone of our own sex? intersante would any of you who are or have been in this situacipon could give us feedback this. Perhaps
so long they live together and doing that little by little we see that friend as the person who was always there with us and then ... is cute, we understand, there is "connection" between us and this may be the most important step to bring us to something else.
How to tell parents that I like my friend and ... she also liked that no longer want to hear about that old boyfriend who made me suffer so much and that really do not want to know about men ...? You must be a difficult step but I believe that life is full of so many problems, it is best to be as honest, even as direct as possible ... but all they like that very much but it beats walking walking around without getting anywhere, and creating environments can rarely be clear at all do not you think? although I will be somewhat complicated with the idea of \u200b\u200btalking in a serious, formal and sincere, it should always work, at least you do not stay with the feeling that you did something wrong, otherwise, you said it like it is and if not today, they will appreciate later.
As for your environment as well, of course, before making this public must be completely sure that this is, that fact will not want anything to men and that already will be gay , not fashion not tantrum, no pressure, if not poruqe you want and you're determined and happy by this decision. Once having this security, there is nothing to stop you, you have to go directly to address the situation according to the environment in which you are: friends, friends, relatives, parents, school, work, etc.
Just be careful to know how you do it, but there is nothing wrong with being gay should keep in mind that there are many people who bother you or likely to withdraw their friendship or anything like that, be prepared for all types of reactions, from most positive to most negative, but that should not stop much less make you feel bad, is part of, now is your lifestyle and have to deal with it.
I expect many things, many new experiences that only you know if you enjoy or reject, dare, do it, have fun with your partner happy, feel good, real siéntente. Projects
your happiness, your peace, your joy, your peace being what they are, believe me ... this is to whoever reaches it.
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