As time goes on we women ever leaving the issue of having children for the more distant future ... we do not know about changing diapers and give bottles, and good, let alone go on to miss the antrum, partying with friends and / or friends or even travel with the couple or aspire to a better job or a masters or graduate . However
would be worth evaluating which is more important to you ... although not all born to be mothers, or so say some ... I dare to tell them to wait a little longer to realize whether or not or it's just wanting to protect themselves from a society to look like "the executive" who has no time for these things because it is very important in their work.
With all this, we lose sight of the benefits of being a mother to a good age, what I mean by this? to have a child before age 30. Why? maybe think you are still young, but the reality is that if you do the math, we would be talking about at least, when your child is in the difficult stage of life when you most need your walk and passed your production stage as a woman ... it will cost you more work, and not only that, until you can run into menopause that far from supporting at that time could have significant drawbacks. Not only because this is important to have a child before age 30. A lot is happening to us or make us turn a blind eye or simply do not care to realize the reality that women now live. More and more breast cancer, cervical, and the chances increase if you have not had children at 30 years so as not to breastfeed and good, among many others, but they are as important. Even though if cunples with "all" the points that could "save" of these diseases are exposed and there are already several cases of these ...
muejres lately, I think we have devalued much chance to be mothers and we have changed the ambition that gives us "be better than them" without emabrgo not take into account that eventually "they" can have children after of 30, 35, of 40 without any problem!, of course, there are also implications for the nutrients in sperm are not the same, but your time is much greater than ours.
is unfortunate, I was touched to see cases in which both end up doing by taking care of enormous efforts to get pregnant, some have succeeded on the basis of much cosntancia, many treatments many tears and edges of divorce, others do not, others will step "train" and it is impossible for them to procreate ... now say they were not born to be mothers and they really do not care ... but ... that was the price they paid for their selfishness, unfortunately now there is nothing to do, and can not ... y. .. was worth working so hard I wonder?.
May you not this happens, it really is important to create awareness in all, although it's nice to be expected to have children when you have security, and other cool head, is really like, when you decide to marry or go live with someone can not be 100% secure, you just shove them because "I late ", you crave, you feel like it but of course also true insecurity and fear, is something new ... but believe me, the satisfaction of having put aside millions of opportunities otherwise, for this experience even once you really change your life.
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