Why Do We Get Chill Blins

I can not have children ...

As time goes on we women ever leaving the issue of having children for the more distant future ... we do not know about changing diapers and give bottles, and good, let alone go on to miss the antrum, partying with friends and / or friends or even travel with the couple or aspire to a better job or a masters or graduate . However
would be worth evaluating which is more important to you ... although not all born to be mothers, or so say some ... I dare to tell them to wait a little longer to realize whether or not or it's just wanting to protect themselves from a society to look like "the executive" who has no time for these things because it is very important in their work.

With all this, we lose sight of the benefits of being a mother to a good age, what I mean by this? to have a child before age 30. Why? maybe think you are still young, but the reality is that if you do the math, we would be talking about at least, when your child is in the difficult stage of life when you most need your walk and passed your production stage as a woman ... it will cost you more work, and not only that, until you can run into menopause that far from supporting at that time could have significant drawbacks. Not only because this is important to have a child before age 30. A lot is happening to us or make us turn a blind eye or simply do not care to realize the reality that women now live. More and more breast cancer, cervical, and the chances increase if you have not had children at 30 years so as not to breastfeed and good, among many others, but they are as important. Even though if cunples with "all" the points that could "save" of these diseases are exposed and there are already several cases of these ...

muejres lately, I think we have devalued much chance to be mothers and we have changed the ambition that gives us "be better than them" without emabrgo not take into account that eventually "they" can have children after of 30, 35, of 40 without any problem!, of course, there are also implications for the nutrients in sperm are not the same, but your time is much greater than ours.
is unfortunate, I was touched to see cases in which both end up doing by taking care of enormous efforts to get pregnant, some have succeeded on the basis of much cosntancia, many treatments many tears and edges of divorce, others do not, others will step "train" and it is impossible for them to procreate ... now say they were not born to be mothers and they really do not care ... but ... that was the price they paid for their selfishness, unfortunately now there is nothing to do, and can not ... y. .. was worth working so hard I wonder?.

May you not this happens, it really is important to create awareness in all, although it's nice to be expected to have children when you have security, and other cool head, is really like, when you decide to marry or go live with someone can not be 100% secure, you just shove them because "I late ", you crave, you feel like it but of course also true insecurity and fear, is something new ... but believe me, the satisfaction of having put aside millions of opportunities otherwise, for this experience even once you really change your life.

Putting Floor In Small Aluminum Boat

"To my mother I love her ... away! Part 2"

The last post spoke about the mother, we said that when you're married or living with your partner and you find things "navel" either the mother of your husband and your husband to his "mommy" is something that unless you solve it from the start and then have a solution you think! not happen.

And it gets even better with the children from the time when you get pregnant and want "take care" to what you do not!. If you eat it, if not do much exercise, if the atolito, or the typical "when I was pregnant I used to ..."" I do not know why now say no, before that worked!" . Have a hard time understanding that we are in another century than that which they lived, now there are millions of different things, different experiences, all is nothing, no longer works atolito and stuff ... now works to keep good medical supervision and also follow the signs to take folic acid, balanced diet, pregnant for the first time before Even 30 years, etc, etc, which previously was not forced ...

to the hospital where you will give birth has to do because the lady where she recommends "relieved" with your doctor now, or is an old man or already passed away ...

But do not stop here, everything is worse when the baby is born! Now yes! if you decide to tapas or not, if you eat x or y, if for no teine \u200b\u200bmilk, if you do not want to take care of yourself and qNo gruel because they want to gain weight and want to watch your figure, as is possible, that before this did not pass, the first is the child, blah, blah, blah, blah ...
not want to say how you feel if you do not already have children and allow qeu your mother invade your space this way, if you end up alone in tatters after giving birth, now imagine after seeing and hearing all these things! or you'll get to mourn or just plain want to run out of room!

No single mother who does not get into this, at least not touched me know any, all and think the worst, if something does not seem, well, those you can imagine with their husbands, daughters, sisters , mothers, cousins \u200b\u200band even neighbors and friends telling how the daughter is able to do X or Y things.
Yes, it sounds scary, but trust me, if not solve the problem from the navel and your husband with his mother and his entire family what we discussed here will be nothing compared to the reality live.

honestly do not think it's no fun to live like that, however much you adore your partner get firm with him and talk.
Now, how to tell without being offended?, Simple, really simple, if you love and understand, sure can talk well before all this happens ... The key is that the talk is quiet, not upset you or much less expose it what you feel, what they want, what you want and let your family be clear "My family are just you and our children" and so should be yours, your mom, your dad and your brothers and are in 2nd plane, and it is not that wrong, it is! or simple, investigates the situation of his mother with his mother, this can serve a lot, you could even illustrate this case or any other close but please do NOT upset you, because if that happens you've lost everything, men do not understand the cries, they understand with caresses, with love. If you want everything to work well, do it well, you have control!.

And say, my family is you and our children, and everything that happens here belongs here and not your family or mine alternates have a place, this is our life and thus live and resolve.

Caution: do not compare offensive, I mean: "Go and John will pays attention to Ana, and go you or I peel, saw when he picked up the dishes?, and you not even you took the time to help with that! what a good husband is Juan, Ana must want it so much! . This is the worst! Apart from making you feel less assaulting your partner, your automestima low and clear, he responds with aggression side o. .. giving his mom ... EYE!

Think! If you want DO NOT let your husband that is separated by a third party, let alone by the mother or an alternative family, is the worst mistake not believe it, ruin your own for someone else?
BUT if you're sure your husband definitely NOT is the right person, this after analyzing anyone WITHOUT more opine, then take the next step ... but give it well and firmly.

Abused! There are millions of couples who are separated only by others, many for the mother, many others in the family in general ... and not because they do not love ... you really think it's worth? Apuéstale your life, your happiness and apuéstale Do not be!

I send you a big hug and all my support!